Tension in Marriages: A Socio-Rhetorical Interpretation of Ephesians 5:21-33

Abstract

This paper addresses the rising marital tension in Nigeria through a socio-rhetorical analysis of Ephesians 5:21-33. Misinterpretations of biblical terms such as “submission” and “headship” have led to conflicts and misunderstandings in marriages. The study emphasizes the equal value of men and women before God, with different roles assigned to each: the man as the head and the woman as a helper. It argues that the leadership role of the husband should be characterised by Christ-like love and humility, rather than domination or subjugation. The paper proposes educational and cultural reforms, such as proper orientation for young couples and a review of patriarchal practices, to alleviate marital tensions. Additionally, it underscores the importance of mutual respect, open communication, and professional counselling to foster healthier marital relationships. By reinterpreting these biblical passages in the context of love and service, the paper aims to reduce power struggles and promote harmony within marriages.